Thursday, March 12, 2015

Momma Said There'd Be Days Like This.....





On or around the 11th day you will may begin to experience not so pleasant side effects from the radiation - typically the radiation side effects are worse when the radiation is to the brain.


OF COURSE THEY ARE!!  Momma said....


Actually, It was the Radiology Oncologist Who Said It.....


And he was right!



My hair began to fall out in little clumps.  To date it looks a bit like a shorter version of my cut or a feeble attempt to copy the world's cutest BFF, Nancy's Aiken's hair - photo to follow - she's today's driver.  Meanwhile...


Next, the steroids are fully onboard and while initially, I didn't mind the burst of energy they gave me, I now am suffering a bit from the ongoing ......

Side effects

  • Weight gain and water retention (YUP!  I look like a little puffer fish)


  • Increased appetite (YUP) but only at night when I'm burning absolutely NO CALORIES!!
  • Difficulty sleeping (YAWN)
  • Mood changes (POOR RICH)
  • A metallic taste in the mouth (YUCK, makes it hard to quench that increased appetite but thankfully the steroids give me the drive to try!!!!)
  • Flushing and sweats (CHECK)
  • Sores in my throat, ears, nose (ICK)
  • Brown spots on my face (UGH)
Rich and I will be meeting with Dr. Heyer, the medical oncologist today.  I expect that he will explain Part Two of my treatment, which I currently understand to be chemo taken daily in the form of a tablet.

Secondly, I have my FINAL radiation treatment today and will meet with Dr. Bajaj afterwords.  Many have asked how we know if the radiation has worked and whether there will be more testing on the skull based tumor or not.  My understanding is initially there will not be any additional testing - it will be based more on the symptoms returning (pain, trouble chewing, swallowing and talking as well as watching for any new syptoms such as nausea, vomiting, vision and/or hearing changes, balance, seizures, etc.)  When the formula for how much and the type of radiation is calculated it is designed to give me as much radiation to the site as possible without doing any longterm irreversible damage.  Meaning, that's it for now.  Doesn't matter if it has shrunk or not, having more radiation is not an option for now.


Had 48 lovely hours with BFF, Gail Suitor who flew in for the weekend.

Rich was our steadfast companion and always a good sport!

My love!

My shrinking hair, puffy faced self!
With the lovely Susan Roy (Monday's driver)


This is special!  Sandi Atkins and her daughter, Stef Durham (who flew in from spokane to spend time with me and my parents).They were Tuesday's chauffeurs and chief errand helpers!








4 comments:

badputts said...

I think about you constantly and send prayers continuously. I wish I could do more.... Wrapping you with love and hugs. Betsy

Jacquelynn Sutphin said...

Your beauty is from within and the hair won't change that, nor will the steroids or radiation. It is in every fiber of your being. Puffer or no, we love you anyways. It's just a moment in time ...one you may wish to pass quickly, nonetheless. The steroids are tough to handle. Praying for some help there. We all know how crazed they can make you feel. We understand that, so don't feel bad about it. We know the real Donna Barkley and are proud to call you friend.
Jacquelynn

Shannon Davis said...

I second every one of Jacquelynn's lovely comments, precious friend. You have always been beautiful to me. And you are even more so now. Not just to me, but everyone blessed enough to have had you in their life. I am praying for minimal symptoms and maximum benefits from ALL your treatments and medications. May God richly bless you, Rich, Lilli, your folks and brothers and your incredible medical team. Keep those selfies comin'! I'm home this Sunday and really hoping to get on your dance card ASAP. I love you dearly. XO+ 💕

Katie Chapman said...

I think of you and pray for you every day. Your spirit is amazing.